TAKE NOTE!

Before delving into these wonderful tips, prepare your mind firstly for a potentially EXPLOSIVE romantic valentine's day.

* Look your partner in the eye when you speak or listen. Glancing about the room suggests that you're not really interested.

* Use body language that says you're alert. Turn your face and body towards your partner.

* Ask questions and wait for complete answers. Really listen to what your partner says and then ask follow-up questions to you've been paying attention (not stealing a glance of another woman passing by) .

* Don't monopolise the conversation, and watch your use of the word "I". Rather employ "we".

* Be positive, enthusiastic and attentive.

* NEVER talk about money, business or any other everyday concerns. Rather talk about yourselves, your needs, your future together, how you first met, you know.

* Don't assume as a reward for your time and effort, sexual gratifiation will be the next item on the agenda. The most important intention/mindset you'll have that day is to make your partner happy - not your personal gain. Just enjoy your partner's delight. Though it could be up to your partner to decide what happens next, if you know what I mean...